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Peranan Muslimat dalam medan amal islami

Ini tajuk satu buku yg along ainun suruh baca, satu ceramah dr syeikh faisal al-mawlawi yg dibukukan, mgkn blh share sket kat sni :

1. Kenapa penglibatan muslimat kurang dlm medan amal islami?
    Kefahaman yg salah :
a) Wanita itu kurg akal n agamanya :
menurut satu hadis nabi yg mafhumnya " aku xpnh lihat seorg yg kurg akal n agamanya yg mampu mengalahkan kaum lelaki, bginda ditanya 'siapa mereka', 'mereka itulah kaum wanita' ".
 kata syeikh, rmai yg mnafsirkn wnita itu kurg akal n agama dr sgi kualitinya pdhal nabi menergkn kekurgn itu dr segi kuantitinya. sbg contoh : prsaksian 2 org wnita mnyamai 1 org lelaki, (bukti kuantiti). Wanita ada wktu2 trtentu yg melarangnya solat n puasa, pdhal Allah tetp mmberi wnita trsebut phala sbgaiman yg slalu dibuatnya stp hari ( ni satu lg bukti kuantiti bkn kualiti)

b) Keegoan kaum lelaki:
Dari firman Allah " Lelaki itu pemimpin ke ats kaum wanita", kata syeikh, tafsiran ayt ini lbh kpd lelaki sbg pemimpin kluarga. memg lelaki adlh pmimpin ke ats kaum wanita, nmun wanita juga adlh pmimpin kpd ank2nya n kaumnya sndri. Lgpun, wanita lbh memahami kprluan wanita n remaja2 wanita. kata syeikh lgi, kbnyakan lelaki rupanya msh ego dgn tdk mahu brsush2 skiranya isterinya trlibat dgn amal islami, jd pra jundullah sedialah berkorban utk agama ini.

2. Awlawiyat wanita : (blh diringkaskn spt ni)
a) antara peranan dirumah dgn amal islami sememangnya dirumah yg plg utama. nmun amal islami jga stu kwjipan, jd wanita prlu mgharmonikn kdua2 ini

b) sekiranya si suami mghalang  :
ats sebab2 yg munasabah, si isteri prlu taat, skiranya tnpa sbb2 yg munasabah si suami akn brdosa tpi isteri tetap wjib taat. seandainya dberi keizinan yg sdrhana, jd knelah brgerak dlm keadaan sdrhana.
So, utk muslimat, plihlah yg sbtulnya (^_^), tp andai kata dah jdoh dgn yg bkn ahlinya, contohilah zainab al-gahzali, beliau nukilkan dlm bkunya 'hri2 dlm hidupku' ktk dilamar olh suaminya: (lbh kurg cmni) " Engkau blh menikahiku, tp izinkan aku utk brjuang dijln jihad ini, aku x mghrap engkau brsmaku dlm prjuangn ini, tp aku berdoa agk tuhan membhgikn phala jihadku kpd dua bhgin yg sparuhnya utkmu.."

~ stkt ini shj yg ana mmpu kongsikn, nak tahu lbh lnjut blhlah bca sndri...~ ^_^

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